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WellBeings is a strategy that promotes wellbeing for all in education settings and supports increased emotional regulation, improved behaviour and nurtures children to thrive.
WellBeings has the ability to add additional capacity to the system without drawing on additional resources and staff working in the mental health sector.
It acts as a preventative model that aims to empower and equip all to be responsible for their mental and emotional awareness and the tools to choose safely and responsibly their consequent actions and behaviours. Thereby preventing and reducing the pressure on teachers, parents and referrals to specialist services and mental health interventions.
We did this by providing regular opportunities and encouraging children and staff to express their emotions in a variety of ways including art/language/movement etc.
Exercise – Flavours of Feeling: using coloured jellybeans as a means of exploring emotions.
“Some of our favourite coloured jellybeans are red, blue and green. Our good feelings are happy, loved, kind, nice and excited. Some of our least favourite coloured jelly beans are white, yellow and orange. Our bad feelings are disgusted, sad, angry and empty.” Grangetown Primary.
Exercise – Connecting the Dots – exploring feelings experienced in school.
“We had a discussion and these are a few of our answers: Frustrated – stuck on a question; when no-one wants to play with me; when someone pushes me; when you’re told what to do Sad – when someone makes fun of me; when someone ignores me; when you get hurt; when someone isn’t listening Chilled/calm – when I do wellbeing with Jo; when I do Maths; when I read; eating dinner Scared – when there’s a question I am really stuck on; when you join a new class; when there’s an argument; when you have to speak in front of everyone.” St Josephs RC Primary.
Emotional Visitors. Noticing and describing emotions using similes / poems.
“My hands feel like pins and needles My heart feels like a cheetah I am burning like the sun My hands feel like lava My heart is beating like a drum My heart feels like fire My feet feel like icicles My stomach felt like a whirlwind My feet are as cold as ice My hands feel like the sun My legs are trembling like a rough sea I am shaking like a washing machine It feels like my hands are on fire It feels like my feet are in ice cubes My face goes red like a tomato My hands are frozen like ice I am excited as a mad scientist creating a new potion.” St Josephs RC Primary
Your body, your home. Where does worry visit you? Becoming familiar with emotional energies.
“Tingly neck and throat, swirly tummy, head ache, dizzy, light headed, grind teeth, chin wobbles, pick nails, shaky, need to go to the toilet, cold/chilly,
sweaty.” Grangetown Primary.
Can you name some comfortable emotional visitors? What about uncomfortable ones? Share them here…
“We agree that jealousy is a very uncomfortable emotion. It makes us feel angry and sick, it gives us worms in our tummy, and it makes us want to hurt someone or something. We are comfortable with happiness and excitement; these are our good feelings.” Harewood Primary School
Noticing the colour of your emotional fish. Comparing colours of emotions using fish.
“I felt happy. It made me feel excited. It was a yellow fish. I was scared the fish would bite me. I felt relaxed it reminded me of the blue sky. I felt scared it was a red feeling. I felt relaxed because of the water the colour was peach. I felt excited about the fish in the waterfall, I felt relaxed because of the birds singing. I was happy. I saw all the colours of the fish. I felt excited. Make your sister’s bed. Clean the house with my mum.” Brougham Primary School
Noticing emotional visitors using the analogy of creatures.
“Elephant – Feeling heavy and slow. Tiger – Feeling energetic. Lion – Feeling brave and excited. Lizard – Feeling colourful.” Highcliffe School
How did you feel and do you want to feel? Share them here…
“I feel tired “Cassie” – I feel happy “Ada” – I feel sad “Elodie” – I feel relaxed “Burhan” – I feel a bit sleepy “Jonas” The pupils in Reception at Harewood Primary school shared their feelings after a snowy dinner time (hence some sleepy and tired children).” Harewood Primary School
Facing fear when trying new things.
“Thomas from Highcliffe Y4/5 worried about climbing a 200metre wall at climbing club. Felt nervous and fast heartbeat before he started but he got to the top and felt proud of himself. Naomi Year 4/5 felt nervous about netball club. Her heart was beating faster and she had lots if thoughts
going round in her head. She was glad that she went and felt proud of herself scoping her first goal.” Highcliffe Primary.
Musical Doodle. Finding My Feet.
“Our children really enjoyed listening to the music and doodling. Some children drew patterns and others drew pictures of what they thought about. One boy said ‘the music made me think of a talking tomato…its funny, that’s why I was laughing’ Other children said ‘it made me feel good.’ ‘it made me feel happy.’ When looking back at the pattern one of the boys had drawn he said ‘it looks like a jigsaw.” Highcliffe Primary.
A wide range of different tools were provided for them to work with to allow for individual sensory modalities and different preferences.
Examples of specific strategies and tools being practiced and noticing the causes of emotions.
Pausing Practices – Clap and Feel
“It helps to calm me down. It helps you make the worry feelings go away super-fast. It makes your hands feel tingly. It makes your hands feel fizzy.” Grangetown Primary.
Feel the Ground Beneath Your Feet
“Year 2 children at Highcliffe Primary did this on the carpet in the class. They enjoyed the feeling of the carpet on their bare feet. Some found the feeling of gently rocking with their eyes closed a bit of a weird sensation. We talked about trying this grounding technique out on different surfaces and many were keen to try it on the grass.” Highcliffe Primary
Smile
“Smiling makes us feel relaxed because we know someone is being nice. Smiling makes us happy because people are being friendly. Smiling makes us feel relieved because bad feelings go away. Smiling makes us feel better when we are unwell.” Harewood Primary
Hold and Let go. Releasing and Relaxing (especially when you feel worried)
“Made me feel: Calm Ready for my next lot of learning. All of the air came out of me. All of the stress came out of me every time the breath came out of me. Relaxed. Kind of tired. Less irritated.” Normanby Primary.
Volcano Breathing
“Volcano breaths made us feels relaxed and calm. Lemonade bubbles – destress, stress releasing as the bubbles burst, calm and relaxing, sleepy feeling, peaceful, made my mind slow down.” Normanby Primary
Journalling, Art & Discussion Prompts. – Volcano Drawing.
What things make you feel like a volcano? You can share them here…
“When my brother hurts me. When Mum says I can’t play on her phone. When I can’t sleep.” High Cliffe Primary.
Grounding- strong and stable like a Tree.
“We enjoyed the Audio Practice, Strong and Stable like a tree because it helped to clear our mind. It was very calming. We liked the eye tracing exercise because when we were drawing the object with our eyes we couldn’t hear or feel anything else around us. It takes us to a completely different place and blocked out anything else we might have been thinking about at the time. The activities helped washing away any bad feelings and made us feel calm and peaceful again.” High Cliff Primary
As children became familiar with the different tools so they started to recognise when they could be most appropriately used to help avoid possible reactive (habitual) behaviours and develop a safer, conscious responsive.
Breath Awareness. Counting Breaths with Awareness.
“We thought this might be useful before a meeting, performance. Maybe when starting a new school/year Moving house Stressed Angry Sad Scared.” St Josephs RC Primary
Colour in Nature.
“Thank you for helping us to learn and help us to calm down. We really enjoy your videos, especially the blowing candle video, as they help us to manage our emotions.”
Breath Awareness. Pencil and Palm Roll.
Can you decide, when in the school day might be a good time to practise this?
After we have eaten our lunch, that would be good time – Bogdan.
After losing a match or game in P.E. – Skye.
At the end of the school day – to make you feel ready for going home and ready for the next school day – Poppy.
At the end of playtime to help me feel ready for learning again – Amber.
During indoor playtime if we want some time on our own. – Connor.
When I feel unhappy, it would help me breathe my sadness and stress out – Ollie.” Brougham Primary.
Highcliffe
Mindful listening.
“Y4/5 Highcliffe Primary We can be chatty and found this a good exercise to try and listen more carefully. We still got distracted by things that were going on but we started the activity well. The main distraction was background noise. Sienna said she was trying to picture the scene as Joshua was reading.” Highcliffe
Reflection. Circle of Control
How can this help you? Where and when can you see it helping you?
“Try to think about our actions and what we can do to help ourselves in each situation.”
Sense awareness. Getting away for a minute in your classroom.
When would this help you?
“When we start to feel a little angry or scared.”
Waves
“We think wave breathing is useful. We will try to use it when: we get to the end of a lesson to reflect on what we have learnt. we are at home. we are starting to feel angry.” St Josephs RC Primary
Tapping with Amanda & Rachel
“When you’re really mad it will help you calm down. When you’re anxious When you’re overexcited When you’re sad When you’re frustrated When you’re stressed or tired When you’re in a maths problem When you’re nervous.” St Josephs RC Primary.
Counting Breaths
“It cooled me down. It feels like resetting my mind. I feel calm. It made me feel peaceful. I now feel ready to learn.” Highcliffe Primary
Children were also encouraged to talk about the tools and techniques they use that help them choose how best to respond to a situation or ‘Hot’ emotion.
Mental Health Awareness Week. Antidotes to Anxiety.
“I feel anxious when I speak to someone and I don’t know how to answer them. It makes my body feel fizzy.”
“To help me not feel as anxious, I look around to see if I can get any ideas to help me.”
“I breathe in and out to help me when I feel anxious.”
“When my brother walks to the shop sometimes he has shaky
legs, and he finds it hard to speak. He usually takes someone with him to help him stop feeling anxious or nervous.”
“My sister feels nervous and anxious when she is around lots of people. She carries a squishy with her or fiddles with her hands to help her if she does feel anxious.” Grangetown Primary.
As children practiced and became more familiar with a range of tools so we began to see evidence of growing self-regulation. Children began to choose, without prompting, how best to respond instead of reacting to a given situation. They also began to teach the tools to others such as class friends, siblings and parents. This also illustrates how greater resilience within the community can be gained by the simple and very natural process of sharing techniques that work for them.
Starfish Breathing
“After learning the starfish breathing this week some of the children have used it independently in their home lives. For example: when younger siblings were winding up their brothers and sisters, they then used it to calm down rather than react. when someone got hurt. when trying to go to sleep. when playing a game. when they got told off.” St Joseph R.C. Primary.
Lazy 8 Breathing
“We found the Lazy8 breathing calming and one child showed her Brownie pack how to do it too.” St Joseph R.C. Primary
Pencil Roll
“The children loved the pencil roll, and I have noticed some of them using it during lessons.”
Foot Stamp
“We have been using this when we feel angry or upset. Some children have encouraged their peers to use it too.” sbcschools.org.uk
The Gift of Confidence
“Your visualisation really helped us to feel more confident before our KS1 Christmas concert and, although we had some last-minute nerves, we went out on the stage and were brilliant!” Highcliffe Primary.
What’s in your Settle Suitcase?
“Things have changed since my nanny died. In my settle suitcase that helps me I have my teddy called Monkey, my toy car, pictures of nanny.” St Benedict’s RC Primary School.
React or Choose to Respond?
“Some people in our class get in more trouble by acting on their emotions but at the moment we have been learning about hormones and mood swings so this will help us.” Harewood Primary.
Focusing and Concentrating
“Children are working on using the breathing techniques in their daily routines.” Harewood Primary
Body Tapping with Amanda & Rachel
“The reception children at Harewood Primary School enjoyed tapping themselves into their favourite colours. Their favourite part was helping their friends change colour.” Harewood Primary.
Relaxing Your Shoulders.
“It relaxed my feelings – I would use this again when I am feeling stressed or angry. I liked this, it got all of the worries out of my head. I would use it again in my house when I am tired. It made me feel calm – I would use it when my brother and sister are having a fight with me. It made me feel calm – I would use it again when my dog is annoying me! It made my shoulders feel relaxed – I would use it again at night in my house. It made me feel tired – I would use it again in bedroom during the day and at night. It made me feel calm and relaxed – I would use it when my sister is annoying me!” Normanby Primary.
Less Panic and More Calm for SATs.
“Wonderful! A calm mind, can bring clarity and greater confidence which can be a massive help in working with SAT questions! It is one of the greatest techniques I have been using. I have brought my friends this week and we are practicing with Mrs…..” St Benedicts R.C. Primary.
Teachers proved quite reluctant at commenting on how they were engaging with the programme but we did capture a few.
Window Tracing.
“Our teacher uses this regularly when she goes on courses to help her focus.” St Josephs RC Primary
FROG
“Getting through the week as we begin to celebrate Easter. Final push today and tomorrow. Feels like Friday should be here. So I’ve decided to light a candle and listen to FROG. This is a refreshing change to sitting and going through emails and scheduling replies, last minute planning for Relax Kids at Lunchtime.” St Benedicts R.C. Primary.
Mindfulness for Staff WellBeing Expectations
“I’m melting 🫠 it’s made me think of doing the module at the end of the day and inviting Staff to join me if they would like to.” St Benedicts R.C. Primary
FOG
“Teacher thoughts: How wonderful to see some boys and girls taking a moment to close
their eyes. I felt the ground meeting my feet- it was a new sensation.” High Coniscliffe Primary.
Story 1 Old Ma – Audio Practice 1
“I feel that this practice is very grounding in terms of it promoting calmness and a sense of being with yourself in the present moment and conscious of your physical self.” Harewood Primary
Examples are provided below of comments generated from a variety of kindness practices which included encouraging children and teachers to notice opportunities for spreading kindness to others but also discovering those activities that make them feel good and thereby helped to increase their resilience.
See evidence of that here…
Daily Happiness Habits – what are your emotional boosters / drainers today?
“Boosters – seeing friends, hugs, Roblox, blankets, being at home, being at school, helping other people, taking a deep breath.
Drainers – doing lots of hard work,
when someone dies, when you go on a long walk.” Grangetown Primary
Animal Mindfulness – How do animals help, support and soothe you?
“I like stroking their fur. Stroking my guinea pigs makes me feel relaxed. Watching my goldfish and changing the light on his tank. Rabbits because I like stroking their droopy ears. I like squirrels and thinking of them makes me calm. Watching turtles and dolphins. Going to my Grandma’s and looking after a parakeet. I like dogs and cats. My crazy puppy makes me laugh. I like stroking lambs. I like visiting my Grandma and watching the dog run around in circles. When I visit my Auntie’s and her dog goes mad jumping up and down. I like birds because when they sing it’s calming for me. Birds because I like watching them fly around. I like dogs. They calm me down. Whales because the noise they make is funny and calming.” St Josephs R.C. Primary
Recognising Glimmers.
“Smell of freshly washed clothes. Sister not coming in my room. Smell of a freshly valeted car.Like it when your brother shuts the door after himself. Feeling the soft grass between toes. Making sandcastles. Birthday approaching. Smelling shampoo. Watching my sheep and lambs skipping about in the field. Abby the dog. Kisses and cuddles from younger siblings.” St Josephs R.C. Primary.
Kindness Ripples.
Giving and Receiving Kindness
“Year 2 Brougham Primary School Clean the table after tea. I tidy up my toys at home. Play with my brother and sister when they are on their own. Clean the dishes. Play with my cousin so they aren’t lonely. Go to bed early. Clean my bedroom and help with chores. Sharing with my family. Go and get things for mum when she needs them. Clean my brother’s room when it is messy. Help someone when they are stuck with their work.” Brougham Primary.
Self Praise
Stamp your foot and connect with the world
“We loved this. It felt so good thinking we were connecting with people around the world. So simple but so effective.” sbcschools.
Kindness and Gratitude
Three Things…
“Lambs running races across the field, my son sunny days, play dates dogs, most animals sleepovers, cats and playing playing with my little sister when my dog jumps on me when I play on my bike at my Nana’s dogs, swimming and sunny days football, playing with my little brother stroking the dog my brothers jumping on me guinea pigs, hopping, my Grandad’s dog, ducks the puppy I used to have, going outside and seeing my Auntie my whole family scoring penalties, rabbits, transport my family, teddies and rabbits my family, play dates and stroking my dog.” St Joseph RC Primary School.
Kindness and Gratitude.
“Elf stayed until New Year’s Day Went to the arcades. Went to the park. Walked the dogs .Getting a new house. Went to Dad’s house. Played with my brothers. Went to the inflatable waterpark. Went to Alphamere. Watched Youtube. Went to the Lake District. Went to my Nan’s for Christmas. Played on PS4. Got a desk on Christmas Day. My dog got better from being ill. Played with my Grandad’s dog, Rosie. Went on a ferry to Amsterdam”. St Josephs RC Primary.
Alphabet Gratitude
“A-Air because it helps us breath
B Bees for honey and listen to them buzz
C cat because I get to stroke her
D- dirt bike because it keeps fit
E elephants because they are great animals
F- family because they keep me safe
G- Grace my sister because she is kind
H home because I have somewhere to live
I imagination because we get to imagine things and stories in our mind
J Joshua because he plays with me
K kangaroos because it was on the masked singer
L life otherwise we wouldn’t be here and explore the world
M Mummy because she takes me to school everyday
N Nintendo switch to play on
O Oxygen we need to breathe
P poo because it helps us survive
Q Queen for being a great monarch
R robots because they know a lot of stuff
S school because I get to learn
T Toys to play with
U umbrellas keep me dry
V vultures to help in the army
W willow my dog because she makes me laugh
X x-rays to check our bones
Y You because you help me learn
Z Zachary is my friend.” dsatredlands
In this way they gain the opportunity to choose with kindness how best to respond to the situation in a way that supports their collective wellbeing.
See evidence of that here…
Stories, Poems, Pictures, Metaphors – Trees
“So simple but effective! Going to use in reading sessions too for inference” adastraschools.
Smile
“We really enjoyed the poem. We passed a smile around the classroom and soon the whole class were infected. Then we became infected with the giggles. A great ‘feel good’ session. Thanks so much.” Highcliffe Primary.
Story One of Mindfulness for Kits – Old Ma
Story 1 Old Ma. The Intention Game
Audio Practice FOG 1
good thoughts.” Sbsc Schools
Audio Practice FOG 2
Emotional Buttons
Thoughts included… Animal cruelty, Stealing, Brother messing up the room when I have just tidied it. Being called a weakling by my brother. When I am hungry. My sister pulling my arm and tripping me up. Being pushed over. Being laughed at. Bullying and when friends run away. When others run over the mud to push in the line. Being ignored. When my sister gets more treats. High Coniscliffe.
Story 2 Mindfulness for Kits
Children become aware that there are various ways of breathing. Children become aware of their own breathing and how to breathe to feel calm and peaceful. Harewood Primary.
Hopefully the above examples and evidence illustrate how we have provided a means of promoting improved wellbeing and educated children on not only the importance of self-care (from an early age) but provided a rich array of tools and practice opportunities. This has allowed development of greater self-awareness and introduced a range of soothing tools to support self-regulation thereby acting as a preventative model to all who engaged regularly with the practices.
Your emotional creatures
I asked my son what animal he was and he said ‘ snail’ because he was so tired and felt like moving slowly. I asked him again and he said ‘cheetah’ because he wanted to run fast with a football. So our animals (and emotions) might change throughout the day!
Primary Schools within the Tees Valley region were invited to register their interest in the programme. This was promoted across various communication channels to ensure reach to the maximum number of schools within the region. This included:
Upon successful registration of the school, these schools were invited to:
96% of respondents had logging into the programme. Of these 63% accessed the programme once a week, 26% several times a week, while 7% used the programme daily. 4% hadn’t accessed the programme at all.
78% found the programme very easy and straightforward to access, navigate and deliver. 17% found it adequate, while 3% found it challenging.
Absolutely 28%
Very likely 34%
Likely 21%
Somewhat likely 14%
Not at all likely 3%
Here are some of the comments made.
Absolutely 8%
Very Likely 4%
Likely 42%
Somewhat Likely 29%
Not Likely at all 17%
Comments included:
“I would definitely and get more support from SLT to make it happen.
Although, not sure we would have the money to purchase the programme but would certainly try.
Will depend on cost and budget given to mental health and well-being
Budget is extremely tight so would depend on costing
Due to being a small school we would have purchased the programme but having very low funding we are unable to pay for a subscription.”
Users completed the same questions in September 2022 and again in July 2023. Responses derived from a mixture of Heads, DMHL, Teachers and SENCO.
Most significantly, 80% of staff felt an improvement in their ability to role-model to pupils wellbeing practices, that supported their own mental and emotional health, and their ability to self-regulate.
And there was a further, 80% of staff felt an improvement in their confidence in offering, using and demonstrating emotional regulation techniques with my pupils.
However, it’s interesting to note that there was 0% improvement in staff regularly utilising mindfulness and wellbeing practices for my own self-care and emotional regulation. One member of staff did share with us however about how much it’s helped her own anxiety when she’s experiencing feelings of overwhelm, “Hope you are well too. We are absolutely over the moon to be named the most active Wellbeings in the country! The children have been asking me for a few weeks how we were doing with our engagement stars. Thank you so much for the certificates and video, the children loved them. I would be delighted for other schools to contact me/us to discuss the programme. Myself and the children have really enjoyed using it, particularly, the week-by-week activities. I, myself, suffer from anxiety and have found the activities extremely useful when I’ve felt myself becoming overwhelmed. I am disappointed that we are unable to continue with it next year as I believe Miss Wright has already informed you. I am moving to Year 1 too so was looking forward to seeing what impact it would have on our younger children and I know the Year 3s (4s) were looking forward to looking at the Mindfulness for Kits activities.” St. Joseph’s Catholic Primary School.